How does one succeed in life?
Last Updated: 22.06.2025 03:08
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
Why do many women wear sleeveless shirts, more so than men?
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
Why do men think I’m easy just by looking at me?
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
Is it legal for an employer to ask why you are taking time off from work?
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
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Saving $10,000 is a goal.
Do not set goals—set systems.
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
Why did Kakashi use Chidori against Rin, despite knowing about her feelings for Obito?
What I need from you?
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
Losing 20kg is a goal.
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
Procrastinates a lot.
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
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Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
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Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
Hangs out with loser friends.
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
My ex got into a relationship within 2 weeks after a breakup. What should I do?
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
That's it for today.
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
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Making more friends is a goal.
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
What made you feel disgusted today?
Does not procrastinate.
Living to your full potential is a goal.
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
Ask yourself:
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).